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REVIEW: ‘Harriet’ is inspiring, marvelous and filled with faith

REVIEW: ‘Harriet’ is inspiring, marvelous and filled with faith

The biographical film Harriet (PG-13) opens this weekend, telling the story of former slave and heroic abolitionist Harriet Tubman.

“Minty” is a determined and smart Christian woman living in 1840s Maryland.

She’s also a slave. Her mother and father are slaves. Her siblings are, too. During the day, they toil the field under the watchful eyes of their owner, a wicked man who sometimes whips and beats them to maintain “order.” At night, they recover and rest, preparing for the next day’s work under the hot sun.

They sing spiritual songs to stay sane—songs about a future Promised Land ruled by a loving God who blesses his people.

Minty, too, sings about the Promised Land, but she also has an earthly goal in mind.

“I wanna be free,” Minty tells a friend.

She doesn’t have a plan to escape the plantation, yet she does have the resolve it will take to get to Philadelphia, which is about 100 miles away and—for safety reasons—must be accessed by foot.

Finally, on a dark and starry night while her master is sleeping, Minty sets out on a long journey. Her pastor—a black man—tells her to follow the north star to ensure she doesn’t get lost. He also gives her spiritual advice—advice she takes to heart.

“Trust in God,” he says.

The biographical film Harriet (PG-13) opens this weekend, telling the story of a slave named Minty who escapes and changes her name to Harriet Tubman once she reaches the anti-slavery society in Philadelphia. It stars Cynthia Erivo (Bad Times at the El Royale) as Tubman, Leslie Odom Jr. (Murder on the Orient Express) as abolitionist William Still, Janelle Monáe as hotel owner Marie Buchanon, and Joe Alwyn (Operation Finale) as Gideon Brodess, a member of the family that bought Tubman. 

The film follows Tubman as she escaped, alone, by traveling a secret route known as the Underground Railroad—a route filled with unsung heroes who lived in slave states but worked to give slaves freedom. Eventually, Tubman herself became a “conductor” on the Underground Railroad and headed back to Maryland to free her family and other slaves. When the Civil War started, she also served as a Union spy and the leader of an armed expedition.

Harriet isn’t a faith-based film in the modern use of that term—its rough content proves that—but it nevertheless includes more faith-based content than you’ll see in most mainstream films. The movie depicts Tubman as a Christian woman who was guided by her faith and who relied on prayer (and sometimes visions) to determine God’s will.

When she arrives in Philadelphia and is asked who accompanied her, she responds it was “just me and the Lord.” When she is running away from slave catchers, she often pauses in the forest to pray. She believed God supported her cause. She was right.

Warning: minor/moderate spoilers!

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Violence/Disturbing

Moderate. A slave is hit with a gun, and we see a bloody gash across his eye. Slave catchers use scent hounds to track slaves. We see scars (from whippings) on the backs of Tubman and other slaves. Female slaves are slapped several times in the film. A free black woman is beaten and kicked in the head. A man is shot in the head and dies. Throughout the film, slaves are treated like animals in what is perhaps the movie’s most disturbing element. 

Sexuality/Sensuality/Nudity

Minimal. Tubman and her husband kiss several times. It is implied that Gideon previously had a sexual relationship with Tubman. We see Tubman’s scarred back as she prepares to take a bath. (Nothing else is seen.) We hear the word “brothel.”

Coarse Language

Moderate. N-word (12), b–ch (4), h–l (5), d–n (2), GD (1), f-word (1), OMG (1).

Other Stuff You Might Want To Know

A slave catcher warns Tubman not to commit suicide.

Life Lessons

The Gospel brings hope: Faith was the source of strength for Tubman and other slaves. We see them sing spiritual tunes and pray throughout the movie.

Scripture can be twisted: The slave owners told the slaves that God ordained slavery. Tubman and the other slaves knew better.

Change requires sacrifice: Slavery wouldn’t have been abolished in the U.S. without heroes like Tubman—men and women who were willing to die for the cause.  

Worldview/Application

The film opens with the scene of an outdoor church service—and a black minister quoting the Bible to tell the slaves to obey their masters. The minister, of course, was only following the orders of the white masters, who sat in the background nodding their approval.  

But Tubman and the others knew their Bible better than their owners did.

The real-life Tubman knew that a Gospel based on grace, mercy, freedom and salvation couldn’t—and didn’t—condone slavery. She knew that in Christianity, there was “neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is neither male and female” because we are “all one in Christ Jesus” (Gal. 3:28). She read stories about God freeing the Hebrews from slavery, and she knew God didn’t want people in shackles.

As she tells Gideon, “God don’t mean (for) people to own people.”

What Works

The plot. The infusion of faith. Also, Cynthia Erivo is impressive as Tubman.

What Doesn’t

The slave owners come across as being caricatures. During some moments, it seems almost like a parody.

Discussion Questions

1. What role did Tubman’s faith play in her desire to be free? What role did it play in her rescuing of others?

2. What does the Bible say about slavery? What would you say to someone who claims it supports slavery?

3. Name five positive character traits of Harriet Tubman.

4. How did Tubman stay encouraged when all hope seemed lost?

Entertainment rating: 3.5 out of 5 stars. Family-friendly rating: 3 out of 5 stars.

Harriet is rated PG-13 for thematic content throughout, violent material and language including racial epithets.

REVIEW: ‘Maleficent: Mistress of Evil’ is dark … and redemptive?

REVIEW: ‘Maleficent: Mistress of Evil’ is dark … and redemptive?

The Disney film ‘Maleficent: Mistress of Evil’ opens this weekend—the second chapter in a modern retelling of the ‘Sleeping Beauty’ story.

Aurora is an optimistic and kind young woman who is queen of the Moors, a magical land where fairies roam and plants obey orders.

She’s also an idealistic leader who believes her subjects can broker peace with Ulstead, a bordering land inhabited by creatures—humans—who have long been at odds with the Moors.

Yes, Aurora is a human, too, but she was raised by fairies. She even considers an evil fairy named Maleficent to be her fairy godmother.

Aurora, it seems, is the ideal queen to bring the two sides together—a notion that is bolstered when Philip, the son of the king of Ulstead, asks her to marry him.

But then Maleficent forbids the marriage. And then she goes on an out-of-control rampage destroying parts of the Ulstead castle and apparently killing the king, too.

It appears the two kingdoms will be at war—forever.  

“Love doesn’t always end well,” Maleficent says.

The Disney film Maleficent: Mistress of Evil (PG) opens this weekend, starring Angelina Jolie (Kung Fu Panda series, Salt) as Maleficent, Elle Fanning (Maleficent, Astro Boy) as Aurora, and Michelle Pfeiffer (Ant-Man and the Wasp) as Queen Ingrith of Ulstead.

The movie is a sequel to the 2014 movie Maleficent, which was loosely based on the 1959 animated film Sleeping Beauty. Both Maleficent films, though, add major plot twists the box-office original did not. 

Much of Mistress of Evil is thematically dark, even though you’ll leave the theater feeling upbeat (More on that below, if you’re curious). Visually, the film is stunning, thanks to colorful landscapes, a larger-than-life castle, cute and other-worldly creatures and CGI effects that make you feel like you’re there.

But that realism has a tradeoff for young children: Much of the film will be too violent and too disturbing for young children, if not for a few older ones, too.

Warning: moderate/major spoilers!

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Violence/Disturbing

Moderate. Maleficent, with black wings and black horns, may scare children. The film opens with a nighttime scene in which Maleficent corners two men who had snuck into her kingdom. Maleficent—who can control nature—uses tree roots and vines to capture them. Later, we hear someone call her a witch. We watch her shoot green lightning-type bolts from her fingers at people. We see someone shot (with a crossbow) and fall into the ocean. Winged creatures that look a lot like Maleficent rally to go to war with the humans. We watch as fairies are locked in a room and many of them killed with a red powder in what looks like an attempted genocide. A secondary character dies; we watch his spirit leave him. The film ends with a major battle, although it’s not bloody or ultra-violent. Finally, alien-like creatures fill the film. Most of them are cute, although some are quite ugly. Sensitive children might have nightmares after seeing them.

Sexuality/Sensuality/Nudity

Minimum. Aurora and Phillip kiss two or three times.

Coarse Language

None.

Other Positive Elements

BothMaleficent movies spotlight Maleficent’s relationship with Aurora. In the second film, Maleficent makes many applause-worthy decisions as a parent/godmother.

Other Stuff You Might Want To Know

The film showcases magic, even if we don’t see cauldrons and broomsticks. Maleficent uses magic for bad and for good.

Life Lessons

Redemption is always possible: This film captures that theme beautifully, even if we see a lot of carnage along the way.  

Self-sacrifice makes the world better: The film’s final five minutes include a plot twist affirming this message.

Looks can be deceiving: One major character—to outsiders, at least—appears good, when, in fact, she is evil and self-centered.

Peace requires selflessness: The two kingdoms failed to live in harmony because of a lack of trust—and in some cases, hatred. Eventually, they come together. 

Worldview/Application

The world of Maleficent: Mistress of Evil is one of good and evil, although Maleficent herself seems to have the greatest power in that universe. She controls nature and is told, “In your hands you hold the power of life and death—destruction and rebirth.” (Although, oddly, we hear characters talk about a “christening.”)

It’s an unbiblical worldview that may be worth discussing with children on the ride home.

The film’s core plot, though, has little resemblance to the original story. Evil people don’t stay evil, and supposedly good people turn out to be bad. The film’s final few moments even have a redemptive ending.  

Unfortunately for families with small children, though, we have to wade through a ton of scary scenes and ugly creatures to get to that moment.

What Works

The animation. The ending. The chemistry between Maleficent and Aurora.

What Doesn’t

The story. It lacked the charm of the best Disney movies.

Discussion Questions

1. What lessons about life does the character of Maleficent teach us?

2. Is peace always possible? What is required for peace between nations? Between individual people?

3. Why was Queen Ingrith filled with hatred? 

4. What does the movie teach us about redemption?

Entertainment rating: 2.5 out of 5 stars. Family-friendly rating: 3.5 out of 5 stars.

Rated PG for intense sequences of fantasy action/violence and brief scary images.

Photo credit: Disney

REVIEW: ‘The Addams Family’ is macabre, but is that OK?

REVIEW: ‘The Addams Family’ is macabre, but is that OK?

Gomez Addams is a protective father who only wants what is best for his children, Wednesday and Pugsley.

Or, maybe he wants the worst.

Whatever the case, Gomez and his family — including his wife Morticia and his brother Fester and — are a tight-nit bunch. They play together. They eat together. They defend one another.

They’re also a strange bunch. For starters, the Addams live in a run-down mansion that always seems to reside under a gray cloud. They also like everything the outside world hates. Like rainy days. And bats. And dust. And dark, depressing clothes. Then there’s their connection to the spirit world. They communicate regularly with deceased relatives, who — get this — send them gifts.

They are a macabre family living their dream life.

But then Wednesday — their teen girl — begins wondering what the outside world is like. And then the Addams learn of an even bigger threat to their dark-and-dreary life: A home-improvement show that is being filmed at the bottom of their hill in a new town. And then the star of the show volunteers to improve their home.

Can their weird way of life survive these new challenges?

The animated film The Addams Family (PG) opens this weekend, starring Oscar Isaac (The Force Awakens) as Gomez, Charlize Theron (Snow White and the Huntsman) as Morticia, and Bette Midler (Beaches, Murphy Brown) as Grandma.

The film is a new take on the story that began with a series of comic strips and was popularized with a 1960s TV series. It follows a family that does everything the opposite of the real world. When it’s time to dust the house, they blow more dust into the room. When they drop Wednesday off at school, they say, “Do your worst.” When they see people laughing, they wonder what’s wrong.

The Addams Family is only the latest children’s film to spotlight the spooky world, following the Hotel Transylvania series and the Goosebumps movies.

The Addams Family may be more family-friendly than Goosebumps (that’s up for debate), but it’s far darker than any of the Hotel Transylvania movies. It’s so dark that the word “macabre” made it into the film’s rating (which says it’s PG for macabre and suggestive humor, and some action.)

Warning: minor/moderate spoilers!

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Violence/Disturbing

Moderate. The film is filled with Looney Tunes-type violence that’s played for laughs, but due to the macabre nature of the family, it seems more disturbing. The funny-but-spooky “Thing” is nothing more than a disembodied hand with a mind of its own. Pugsley, the boy, often shoots his uncle with either arrows or small bombs as part of “target practice.” (The uncle applauds him each time.) Pugsley climbs down the mouth of their pet lion to retrieve his meal. When a red balloon lands on the family’s property, Morticia jokes that it’s typically held by a “murderous clown.” Wednesday buries her brother in a grave, apparently as a joke. (He quickly digs out.) Lurch the butler, who looks a lot like Frankenstein, answers the door with a deep-voiced and eerie “you raaaang?” Pugsley briefly climbs the walls — his pupils a bright white. A family member jokes about a gift they were given “from dead relatives.” Wednesday wonders why her vanity mirror — unlike a smartphone — can hold only “14 souls at a time.” We hear a joke about embalming fluid. A bat bites Morticia’s neck, and we hear a straw-sucking sound. Morticia, wanting to get to know Wednesday better, invites her to a “tea and seance” in the grave. Mortician then communicates with her deceased parents. She also uses a ouija board. The final scene includes multiple things blowing up.

Sexuality/Sensuality/Nudity

Minimal. Morticia’s dress shows a bit of cleavage. A couple briefly kisses at the end.

Coarse Language

Minimal. One or two barely heard OMGs.

Other Positive Elements

Sure, Mr. and Mrs. Addams love all things dark, but they also love their children.

Other Stuff You Might Want To Know

Wednesday goes to a public schools and sees a friend, Parker, bullied. (The other girl places a sandwich and drink in Parker’s backpack.) At the school, Wednesday creates a device to bring dead frogs (intended for dissection) back to life. 

Life Lessons

Don’t put work before family: Margaux Needler, the TV host, ignores her teen daughter, Parker, who essentially grows up without a caring mother in her life.

Let your kids be themselves: Of course, this has its limits, but in The Addams Family, the parents want their children to be exactly like them. They fail to see Wednesday and Pugsley as unique individuals.

Don’t judge people on appearance: This is the film’s primary message, and it’s driven home in the movie’s final minutes. It’s a good lesson for children to learn.   

Worldview/Application

I watched the black-and-white, live-action version of The Addams Family while growing up. It was funny — and original.

Since then, though, I’ve become uncomfortable with a story that makes jokes about seances, ouija boards and the dead. Those are things Scripture explicitly tells us not to embrace.

The Addams Family trivializes the dark world. It makes it seem fun, humorous and attractive — when it’s just the opposite. (Morticia talks to her dead parents much like we would call a real-world person on an iPhone.)

No doubt, much of the film humor is family-friendly and appropriate. (Who wouldn’t laugh at a person “dusting” a house by making it dustier?) But much of the humor is not.

Sponsors

Hershey’s, IHOP, Goodwill, Tombstone, General Mills, Cost Plus World Market and Scholastic.

Discussion Questions

1. Is the dark world presented as good or bad?

2. What does the Bible say about communicating with the dead?

3. Do you like macabre movies? Why or why not?

4. Are macabre films ever OK?

5. What lessons can we learn from the relationship between the Addams parents and their children?

Entertainment rating: 2.5 out of 5 stars. Family-friendly rating: 3 out of 5 stars.

Rated PG for macabre and suggestive humor, and some action.

REVIEW: ‘Abominable’ is a touching film about grief, healing

REVIEW: ‘Abominable’ is a touching film about grief, healing

The DreamWorks animated film Abominable opens this weekend, telling the story of a girl who sets out on a quest with two neighbors to return a yeti to its home.

Yi is a busy young woman living with her mother and grandmother in Shanghai, China.

During the day, she makes cash doing odds jobs—taking out trash, walking pets through the city, and babysitting small children

At night, though, she lays in bed, thinking about how things used to be when her father was still alive. Sometimes, she even sneaks up on the roof to play his old violin.

“She misses her dad,” her grandmother says. 

If only Yi had a close friend.

Perhaps a mythical hairy creature would help her cope. And that’s exactly what happens.

One night while playing a favorite tune on the roof of her apartment building, Yi sees a huge, white-haired creature hiding in the shadows. It is a …. yeti.

With an armed helicopter chasing this beast, Yi helps it hide, and then bandages its wounds and feeds it.

“I don’t know where you come from, but you sure don’t belong here,” she tells him.

Can Yi help the yeti find his home before he is captured and killed by researchers?

The DreamWorks animated film Abominable (PG) opens this weekend, telling the story of a girl who sets out on a quest with two neighbors to return the yeti, named Everest, to his mountainous home. (You guessed it: He’s from Everest.)

It stars Chloe Bennet (Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D.) as Yi, Albert Tsai (Coop and Cami Ask the World) as her friend Peng, and Tenzing Norgay Trainor (Liv and Maddie) as another friend, Jin. 

Abominable is similar to other child-meets-creature-and-learns-lesson movies of the past, including E.T., Pete’s Dragon and Home. Although it may not be as entertaining as those other films, it’s still pretty good, and it’s filled with positive messages about healing from grief. Moviegoers who have lost a family member recently will share Yi’s pain. 

The yeti—in case you’re not up to speed—is the mythical creature that supposedly lives in the snow of the Himalayan Mountains. He’s often called the Abominable Snowman.

In Abominable, Yi and the Yeti have similar needs. They’re each lonely. They’re each running away from something (she from reality; he from the bad guys). And they’re each longing for something significant (her—a closer relationship with her family; him—his home in Mt. Everest).

The movie is mostly family friendly, although it does have a few worldview elements that will concern some parents (more on that below). 

Warning: minor/moderate spoilers!

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Violence/Disturbing

Minimal/moderate. The movie opens with Everest being chased by the bad guys. (They had captured him and stored him in a research lab.) He escapes and then is hit by a car, but survives. Everest growls several times in the film, but he’s mostly a lovable creature who just wants to play. (He’s a yeti child.) Those bad guys don’t give up and chase Everest throughout the film with tranquilizer guns. We see unmanned drones corner Yi and her friends. The film’s ending might frighten sensitive children. (Yi is pushed off a tall bridge and is presumed dead, but survives.)

Sexuality/Sensuality/Nudity

Minimal. Jin’s popularity among teens girls is a running joke. We see him preparing for a date.

Coarse Language

None. Two instances of “oh my gosh.” One “you idiot.”

Other Positive Elements

Yi’s mother and grandmother truly care for her. They’re also patient with her when she is frustrated with life.

Other Stuff You Might Want To Know

The grandmother jokes that she only plays basketball “for money.” Everest the yeti is magical.

Peng and Yi say they learned that the stars are “ancestors who watch over us.”

Yi, while on her way to Mt. Everest, stops at the Leshan Giant Buddha, a Mt. Rushmore-type sculpture of Maitreya (or the Buddha yet to come). 

Life Lessons

Friendship is a blessing: Yi needs a friend, and she finds it in Everest and two neighbors.

Arrogance is not attractive: Yi’s neighbor/friend, Jin, considers himself a lady’s man who dresses like he belongs in a boy band. He’s also self-centered.

Grief is a process: The movie doesn’t tell us how long Yi has been without her father, but it implies it’s been several months, if not longer. Yi carries around a picture of her father in her violin case. She acknowledges she’s stayed busy to suppress the pain—and has yet to stop and cry.

Children need a family: Yes, teens sometimes act embarrassed around parents, but Abominable affirms the necessity of the family structure, including that of a mother and father. (Her dad formerly played the violin for her.) 

Worldview/Application

First, the good. Abominable, much like Pete’s Dragon, can teach children a simple lesson about our world: Science can’t explain everything. “Yetis don’t exist,” Jin tells Yi. But in her world, they do. Similarly, in our world, people often reject the existence of God, pointing to (supposedly) scientific evidence. Kids innately know better.

Now, for the problematic. Abominable isn’t as overt in its unbiblical worldview as Moana or Coco, but it’s still there. We learn that Yi’s father longed to take her to the Leshan Giant Buddha statue, and then we see it up close, as she takes her time exploring it. (“What’s that?” my 11-year-old son asked. “A false God,” I told him in a two-second movie explanation.) We also hear Peng say that stars are “ancestors who watch over us.” Except for that one line, little-to-nothing else is heard about traditional Chinese religious beliefs.

Everest the yeti is magical, and he is able to control nature—including the growth of flowers and other plants—simply by closing his eyes and humming. (His body glows, too.) We are told he “talks to nature.”

If you take the children, then be prepared for a worldview discussion on the ride home.

The film’s message about grief is a good one. Yi learns to celebrate her father’s memory and to rely on friends and family members for healing. Of course, the Bible has much more to say on the topic (Psalm 34:18, 2 Corinthians 1:3-4) that is worth exploring.

Sponsors

Little Debbie, Luigi’s Italian Ice, Bearpaw, Yogurtland, FAO Schwartz and East West Bank.

What Works

The animation. The scenic landscapes. The education in cultural differences. (Grandma cooked dumplings that looked different than anything I’ve eaten.)

What Doesn’t

Everest’s magical powers. Yetis are Jedi-like? (So, that’s why we never seen one, huh?)

Discussion Questions

1. What helped Yi heal emotionally?

2. What does the Bible say about grief and healing? Do people heal from grief differently?

3. What was the movie’s message about social media? About arrogance? Was Jin likeable?

4. Is there someone you need to reach out to who is grieving? 

Entertainment rating: 3 out of 5 stars. Family-friendly rating: 4 out of 5 stars.

Abominable is rated PG for some action and mild rude humor.

REVIEW: ‘Ad Astra’ is an awe-inspiring celebration of family, love and life

REVIEW: ‘Ad Astra’ is an awe-inspiring celebration of family, love and life

The science fiction movie ‘Ad Astra’ opens this weekend, telling the story of an astronaut who travels the Solar System to save Earth.

Roy McBride is an introspective and emotionless man who has always lived in the shadow of his space-faring father—the great H. Clifford McBride, who was the first astronaut to travel to Jupiter and then Saturn.

Roy was 16 when his father left Earth. He was 29 when his father’s spaceship stopped transmitting a signal, apparently due to a tragedy near Neptune that claimed his life.

The youngest McBride—who also became an astronaut—still hasn’t recovered from the loss.

“I’m angry,” Roy says. “… He left us.”

Roy, though, has moved on in life by keeping his emotions in check. He doesn’t make decisions on a whim. His choices, he says, are always pragmatic.

He’s also calm under pressure, which is one reason why the U.S. government wants to send him through the solar system to investigate a threat to Earth.

It seems electrical surges from space—technically, the “uncontrolled release of antimatter”—are causing explosions all over the planet. Thus far, 43,000 people have died, and if it continues, the rest of humanity will be gone, too.

Can Roy find the cause before it’s too late?

The science fiction movie Ad Astra (PG-13) opens this weekend, starring Brad Pitt (Ocean’s series) as Roy, Tommy Lee Jones (Men in Black series) as Clifford McBride, and Donald Sutherland (The Hunger Games series) as Thomas Pruitt, a family friend.

The film is set in the “near” future, when civilians can travel to the moon and a trip to Mars takes less than three weeks.

Ad Astra, though, is not a shoot-em-up space film. Instead, it’s quiet. And slow-paced. And cerebral. And entertaining. And wonderful. Some critics are comparing it to 2001: A Space Odyssey, yet it tackles some of the same weighty subjects of more recent science fiction movies like Arrival and Interstellar.

Ad Astra examines what’s most important in life—family and love and even faith. It encourages us to find the right balance between our home life, our work and our hobbies. It even reminds us of the uniqueness of our planet—and urges us to be grateful for it. 

Except for a few unnecessary strong words (more on that below) and a few bloody images, it could have been rated PG.

Warning: minor/moderate spoilers!

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Violence/Disturbing

Moderate. People fall off a tall tower. (We don’t see them hit the ground.) Astronauts engage in a laser-gun battle on the moon with pirates; a few people are killed. A primate attacks astronauts in space, killing one of them. (We see a bloody face.) We see a fight inside a spaceship. (Three people die, although it’s not bloody.) 

Sexuality/Sensuality/Nudity

None.

Coarse Language

Moderate. H-ll (3), GD (3), f-word (1).

Other Positive Elements

We see an old clip of Roy’s father, from space, saying: “I thank God” for everything that’s been accomplished. He adds that he’s “feeling His presence so close”

Later, when an astronaut dies in space, the crewmates prepare the body; before pushing it into space they say a Catholic prayer: “May you meet your Redeemer face to face and enjoy the vision of God forever.”

“Amen,” another astronaut adds.

Life Lessons

Emotions are not a curse: Roy spends his life trying to suppress his feelings, which prevents him from experiencing the greatest of emotions, including joy and love. Before the film ends, he corrects his ways.

Family is priceless: Roy, while in space, expresses regret for the way he treated his wife. He has power and fame, and yet is focused on his home life—millions of miles from Earth.

Humanity is depraved: Sure, you already knew that, but watching nations battling for minerals on the moon drives this point home even further.

It’s never too late for redemption: I won’t spoil the plot for you, but Roy gets a second chance—in several areas of life. 

Earth is a blessing: Once they reach the outer limits of the Solar System, the astronauts begin yearning for life back home—not only for their families but also for things like oceans and birds and trees.

Worldview/Application

Spoilers ahead! The best movies celebrate the good in life. They discourage the bad. They force us to examine our own lives. They encourage us to live better lives.

Ad Astra does all that.

Roy’s father traveled to the other side of the solar system looking for intelligent life, but abandoned the very intelligent life closest to him—his own family. He chased after his dream at the expense of those who loved and needed him, including his son. “He missed what was right in front of him,” Roy says.

It’s only science fiction, right? Not really. How many of us make that mistake every week or every day? We chase our dreams, our hobbies and our paycheck and forget about our family back home. As his wife tells him: “You seem preoccupied with your work. I feel like I’m on my own all the time… You’re so distant, even when you’re here.”

Discussion Questions

1. Why do we tend to embrace the fleeting at the expensive of what’s most important in life?

2. When are emotions a good thing? A bad thing? What’s the key to finding the right balance?

3. Can regret be a positive emotion? Was it a good thing for Roy?

4. Did you like the ending? Why or why not? 

Entertainment rating: 4 out of 5 stars. Family-friendly rating: 3.5 out of 5 stars.

Ad Astra is rated PG-13 for some violence and bloody images, and for brief strong language.