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Is Gender Descriptive or Prescriptive?

Is Gender Descriptive or Prescriptive?

Ideas have consequences. We are now reaping the consequence of certain ideas that have been a part of our society for so long we take them at face value. Yet when the face of culture changes, these values change, and we are left scrambling to make sense of how to address these issues.

This topic is one I have written and spoken about many times, but I want to make one more attempt to show how we can bring healing to those who struggle with issues regarding their sexual identity. I recently listened to an interview with a Christian woman who struggles with gender dysphoria. Gender dysphoria is the clinical name for what most people today know as transgender.

In her talk, she repeatedly commented on the fact that she never felt like she fit the typical world understanding of what it meant to be a woman. She would rather play contact sports than shop for clothes or wear makeup. She was often referred to as a tomboy growing up.  This is a problem that the Gospel can really help.

In Genesis, we are told that God created them male and female. What it doesn’t say is just as important as what it does say. It doesn’t say Adam was strong and was created to like football, and Eve spent her evenings sewing fig leaves for clothes. The reason it doesn’t say anything about how they behave is because gender is descriptive not prescriptive.

What do those two words mean? Descriptive is just describing their gender and nothing more. If it was prescriptive then it would be followed by certain traits that we are designed to adopt. Lots of descriptive Bible verses are incorrectly used in prescriptive ways. For example, Jer. 29:11 is a very popular verse. It reads, “For I know the plans I have for you declares the Lord, plans not to harm you but to give you a hope and a future.

This is a very nice verse, but it is descriptive. It’s God promising a certain group of people a certain thing. This thing that God promises is not applicable to all people at all times. How do I know this? It’s easy. This verse could not apply to Jesus and his disciples. Jesus and his disciples both had plans that included them being harmed. Yes, part of God’s plan for his disciples and himself included their own personal harm. They were beaten and sometimes killed.

So you can see how troublesome it would be if they tried to take that verse from Jeremiah and make it about them. Eventually, it would leave them confused when they faced hard times because it went counter to the promises they claimed for themselves. In the same way, we need to be aware that gender is descriptive not prescriptive.

When a transgender woman says she feels like a man on the inside, what she means is that she doesn’t fit the typical worldly view of femininity. The pressure that the world put on her to conform is not a biblical pressure. Very rarely does Scripture suggest that a man or woman should act a certain way, and when Scripture does, it has to do with how we interact with each other, not with what kind of personality we should have. Christians should be sounding the alarm against sexual stereotypes because we now see just how much harm they cause. They have drawn lines in the sand and when people don’t fit certain molds we reinforce those stereotypes instead of showing them that freedom can always be found in Christ alone.

As the culture flails about like a fish out of water, may we have the attitude of Christ who looked beyond worldly labels to the heart of each person, and then offered them a place to find rest for their souls.

Suicide Watch: 13 Reasons Why (to Choose Life)

Suicide Watch: 13 Reasons Why (to Choose Life)

People in Evangelical Christian circles expressed heartbreak, shock and sadness at the recent news of the apparent suicide of Jarrid Wilson, a young pastor and advocate for mental health.

The suicide epidemic is real. Everyone from mental health experts to Christian leaders who know God’s Word forward and backward, seem perplexed as to what is accelerating this trend.

I will allow those wiser and more knowledgeable people to dissect the problem and suggest solutions. Contrary to Netflix damaging series “13 Reasons Why,” today I am offering 13 reasons why life is worth living.

13. We are not our own. If we live life as though it’s ours to use, we often will make destructive choices. If instead we live as though we belong to God, we are more apt to live wisely, with eternity in mind. Our lives are not our own (Rom. 12:1-2).

12. Your life is valuable. Growing up, the self-esteem movement told me how special I was. While I since have learned that I am not all that special, I learned an even greater truth: I am valuable (and so are you) because we are created in God’s image (Gen. 1:27), and we each have inherent worth. Never forget that.

11. People need you. It’s easy to drift through life feeling like you have no purpose. We need to realize—whether we are ever told this or not—other people are counting on you. Other people need you.For example, I met a man named Dennis who had made some poor life choices. He felt worthless. God saved him. This man now has a wife, many children and grandchildren. Whether you are married or single, generations now and in the future need you to live out life fully and faithfully.

10. There is help. If you are feeling suicidal, don’t wait to ask for help. One expert on suicide said, “If you are struggling with depression, please call 1-800-273-TALK 24/7.” 

9. There is hope. One of my biggest struggles in life is being a father. I am not the father I want to be. Yet I read a book title that was called “Hopeful parenting,” and I was reminded of the power of hope. In life, we can always cling to hope.

8. Persistence pays. In the most brilliant, but brief, commencement address of all time, Sir Winston Churchill said, “Never give up. Never, never.” That is the best possible advice, humanly speaking, on days we feel like giving up.

7. Problems are often temporary. I read an article by a woman whose own husband and son each committed suicide. This dear woman said, “Don’t choose a permanent solution to a temporary situation.” When we focus on our problems, our minds can play tricks on us and tell us things will never get better. Wisdom and life experience, though, show that problems are often temporary.

6. Suicide transfers your problems to others you love. Through reading this same article, it was clear to see that the problems that these men who took their own lives were overwhelming. Perhaps the men were trying to escape their problems by suicide. It only ended up transferring problems to other people.

5. Satan is lying to you. Jesus said, “The thief (Satan) comes to steal, kill and destroy, but I have come that you might have life and have it more abundantly.” The blueprint of the devil is death. God’s plan is for life. (John 10:10). Today, choose not to believe Satan’s lies.

4. There is more to life than what you see. Right now, around the world, other people are struggling. Don’t fall into thinking those picture perfect Instagram moments that everyone else is posting means you are alone in your troubles. Others are struggling too.

3. God’s people love you. Christians do not always reflect the unconditional love of Jesus. In fact, we rarely do. But in God’s family, people outside the church and inside the church should know love. If you are a follower of Christ, today show others you love them, not by words only, but by actions.

2. God loves you. The Bible says, “God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us” (Rom. 5:8). Let that truth sink in. Remind yourself of that daily, and remind others as well.

1. Jesus died so you could live. The Bible says, “For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life.For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through Him” (John 3:16). Jesus came to give you life and eternal life. If we know that, believe that and trust Him, that truly would be the greatest reason why.

DHD: Falwell, Born-alive bill, Conservatives clash, Mohler on newspapers, Worship in darkness, Durant keeps griping

DHD: Falwell, Born-alive bill, Conservatives clash, Mohler on newspapers, Worship in darkness, Durant keeps griping

Greetings!

I started this week celebrating my mother, as her funeral was Monday. Two busy work days followed, and now I’m beat as the weekend arrives.

But I have enough energy to share my thoughts on six timely topics. Thank you for reading!

1. Falwell’s follies

A Politico article came out this week attacking Jerry Falwell, Jr., leader of Liberty University, my alma mater. Apparently it was written by a fellow grad, of whom I am not familiar and have never met.

I start this week’s DHD sharing what I think about this embarrassing report. It’s not the first time I’ve heard negative reports on Jerry, Jr., and I predict that more will follow.

I don’t know Jerry, Jr., but I do know his late father who founded Liberty and was quite visible on campus while I was a student and in the seven years that I worked in the LU athletics department after graduation. There is much to criticize and disagree when discussing Dr. Falwell, but I do believe he was a good man with good intentions. He did great things as a preacher of the Gospel and had great vision, which resulted in building a major Christian university. Falwell loved people, even those who did not share his views and perspectives. He was very personable, and God gave him a passion to build a university that would train “young champions for Christ.”

One thing I know about Jerry Jr. is he knows how to make money and has been instrumental in building up Liberty to where I didn’t even recognize the campus when I visited about four years ago. I do have sources who have shared stories about Jerry Jr., and the stories would be in line with what was shared in the Politico article.

What I don’t like about the Politico article is the overall tone and shady presentation. Multiple times the writer mentioned anonymous sources. I am aware that Jerry Jr. is very controlling and insists his subordinates keep things in house, but using anonymous sources when reporting, especially as excessively as they were used in this article, hinders credibility.

For the most part, I agree with David French who gave a good response to the Politico article. He wrote, “Time and again, powerful Christian men create or nurture powerful Christian institutions — only to fall prey to the temptation to equate the advance of those institutions and their own power with the advance of the Gospel and the Kingdom of God.”

2. Blocking Born-Alive Bill

It would be beneficial for you to read up on the Born-Alive Abortion Survivors Protection Act. The Ethics and Religious Liberty Commission offers a current report of this important bill being blocked by U.S. Congress.

The ERLC article is a good one, and I appreciate how it concludes, sharing how the One World Trade Center in New York City (ironically since New York approves of infanticide) memorializes those who died during the 9/11 terrorist attack, including those who were expectant mothers “and her unborn child.”

3. Conservatives clashing on role of government

I enjoyed reading Jonathan Leeman’s article “Conservatives Clash on the Goal of Government.”

It’s a deep read, regarding politics, but the article communicates well the importance of justice over liberty. And I like how Leeman expresses the need for two conversations—one just among those who follow biblical principles and the other with presenting a pragmatic approach.

Leeman wrote, “…private hallway conversation one among Bible-believers provides us universally true biblical principles. Public meeting conversation two then requires us to exercise wisdom both in persuading people who don’t share our biblical starting point and in determining how to apply those principles from place to place.”

There has been a recent clash among Conservative Christians even in Oklahoma. Leeman’s article gives great guidelines on how to approach political issues. I loved how he explained common covenants through Adam and Noah and special covenants through Abraham, Moses, David and Christ. “Different covenants provide different terms by which people must render judgment—do justice,” Leeman wrote.

More can be said, but I would encourage you to read Leeman’s article.

4. Mohler and today’s newspapers

Al Mohler’s podcast “The Briefing,” is regularly cited in DHD. This week, Mohler brought up a topic that relates to my profession as a newspaper editor. Check out The Briefing’s Wednesday’s edition and listen to the opening topic “No More Newspapers? Christians Face Today’s Changing Media Landscape.”

Mohler’s assessment of modern newspapers is correct. It’s a difficult day for many reasons in the newspaper business. But he is right that from a national spectrum there are only three newspapers that fully apply. They are USA Today, the New York Times and the Wall Street Journal. Other papers have some clout, but to the level of these three.

Mohler also summarizes the history of media ecology, explaining how people through the years received news. And Mohler explains how the control of the media by the secular mindset causes a major disadvantage for those with a Christian worldview.

“This puts convictional Christians at a significant disadvantage in our society because when you look at the people who are shaping the news and who are influencing the flow of information in the main coming from elite media sources, they have very little knowledge of us in general, they have very few conversations with us, and if the truth be known, they are probably not very interested in us, not until they have to be.”

5. Darkness in worship services

The church curmudgeon in me will be expressed in this DHD topic. A family member shared on Facebook an article from 2018 titled “Why is the Church Going Dark?

I have to confess, I’m not a fan of dark worship services, especially on Sunday mornings. The article’s writer brings up great points of contrasting light and darkness spiritually, and I think it would be beneficial to demonstrate in at least some of our church worship services.

I get that it is appealing to younger groups, but I find it hard to believe they would be turned away if worship through music was observed with lights, especially when worshipping the Light of the world (John 8:12).

Just like the author of this article, I welcome a discussion of the importance of darkness in church worship services.

6. Durant keeps griping

Kevin Durant is in the news again complaining about the Oklahoma City Thunder. I had to think how long ago it was that he left. We’re going on three years since his departure.

I just think it’s fascinating that Durant won two league titles with Golden State, and he still seems to not find contentment in life. Whenever he is interviewed about the Thunder or OKC, he brings up a new narrative. It’s never the same story. I don’t know what he thinks he will accomplish by bringing up a new gripe.

It’s a new day in Oklahoma City. The Thunder will begin a new chapter, and even though many don’t know what the new chapter will entail, I think it’s safe to say we have moved on. It’s a shame that Durant, even with all the accolades he obtained after leaving the Thunder, has not.

REVIEW: ‘Downton Abbey’ is marvelous (with one major caveat)

REVIEW: ‘Downton Abbey’ is marvelous (with one major caveat)

The film ‘Downton Abbey’ opens next week, continuing the story from the popular PBS miniseries of the same name that ran from 2011-2016.

Lord Robert Crawley is a distinguished 20th-century gentleman who is caretaker of Downton Abbey, a historic English estate fit for a king, with dozens of bedrooms and a large staff to cook and clean.

Perhaps that’s one reason the king and queen have chosen to pay a visit.

Yes, King George V and Queen Mary of the United Kingdom are visiting Downton Abbey for one night during a stopover on their journey to another town, and “Lord Grantham” (that’s Crawley), and his family and servants have exactly two weeks to get ready.

The servants will polish the silver, dust every nook and cranny, and purchase the freshest food for the finest meals.

Then again, maybe not. The servants learn that the king has his own butler and his own servants to tend to matters. Even worse, the king’s servants are, well, snobs.

This means Lord Grantham’s beloved servants won’t be needed for this once-in-a-lifetime experience. Instead, they’ll be serving the servants. Not fair? You better believe it. As Daisy (one of Lord Grantham’s cooks) says, “We’re not footballs … and we don’t deserve a kicking.”

The film Downton Abbey (PG) opens next week, continuing the story from the popular PBS miniseries of the same name that ran from 2011-2016. It has the same actors and actresses (Hugh Bonneville as Lord Grantham and Michelle Dockery as Lady Mary), the same music (with a slight twist), and the same pace. Most fans of the series will walk away pleased. Lord Grantham’s mother, Violet Crawley (Maggie Smith), returns with multiple zingers, while her intellectual counterpart, Isobel Grey (Penelope Wilton), returns to counterpunch.

Yet the movie isn’t a one-dimensional “get-ready-for-the-king” film. It has several romantic side angles, a surprise or two and even a few good lessons.

The film also has a major caveat—a gay angle that will turn off many viewers (Details below).

Warning: minor/moderate spoilers!

(Scale key: none, minimal, moderate, extreme)

Violence/Disturbing

Minimal. Someone tries (but fails) to shoot and kill someone.

Sexuality/Sensuality/Nudity

Moderate. Several couples share brief kisses, although the film has no bedroom scenes. We see Lady Edith in a corset.

The film continues the story about Thomas Barrow’s homosexuality, although it seem more noteworthy during the span of a two-hour movie, instead of the plot being spread out over six seasons. We see him and another male character go to a gay nightclub, where men are dancing with one another (We see two men kissing). Later we see Thomas and his companion briefly kiss, too. Referencing the taboo nature of homosexuality, Thomas says, “Will they ever see it our way?” His companion responds, “I don’t know. Fifty years ago, who would have thought men could fly?”

Coarse Language

Minimal. I counted only two words (a single “my G-d” and a single use of the British slang “bloody”). Kudos to the filmmakers for not filling it with coarse language, as happens far too often when TV shows are turned into movies.

Other Stuff You Might Want To Know

The film opens with a recap of the TV series, in which a rape is referenced. The flashback also references a “gay man in 1920s England.”

When the Crawleys wake up to sunshine instead of rain, someone says, “God is a monarchist.”

Life Lessons

Serving is a virtue: The servants take pride in their work. Mr. Molesley embodies this trait best, wanting to wait on the king and queen.

Humility is appealing. The film puts both snobbery (demonstrated by the king’s servants) and humility on display. The latter is demonstrated by the entire household, including by Lord Grantham and Lady Mary, who don’t view their servants as beneath them.

Your sins will find you out: One minor character discovers this biblical truth. 

Worldview/Application

At first blush, Downton Abbey would appear to be a film about greed (why are the Crawleys hoarding their possessions?) and elitism (what else would you call a plot about aristocracy?).

In fact, though, it’s just the opposite.

When Lady Mary wants to sell the castle and become a normal person, Anna Bates, a servant, tells her: You employ people. You give people jobs. Without your family, this community would crumble.

The Crawleys are anything but snobs. When portable chairs must be moved during a downpour, Lady Mary and Lord Grantham get to work—opting not to force the servants to perform the task.

What Works

The music. The plot. The grandeur. Seeing the castle on the big screen is more enjoyable than watching it on a tiny television at home.

What Doesn’t

The gay angle with Thomas Barrow wasn’t surprising—the TV series tackled the subject, after all—but it will make it less palatable for some families.

Discussion Questions

1. Name five positive characteristics about Lord Grantham and his family.

2. Do you think the Crawleys are humble?

3. What does the film teach us about finding joy in work?

4. What can we learn from Thomas about loving those with which we disagree?

5. Would it have been better to sell the castle? Was Lady Mary right? 

Entertainment rating: 4 out of 5 stars. Family-friendly rating: 3 out of 5 stars.

Rated PG for thematic elements, some suggestive material, and language.

Evolving Away from Evolution

Evolving Away from Evolution

One of my favorite books is Thomas Kuhn’s landmark work, The Structure of Scientific Revolutions.

Kuhn’s observation is that, historically, scientific understanding of ourselves and our universe has not been a linear progression of increased and clarified knowledge. Instead, it has been a cycle of firmly-held paradigms being replaced by new and divergent paradigms. This phenomenon is what Kuhn calls a paradigm shift. As Kuhn says, this is not about seeing different things, but about seeing things differently.

The process, as described through numerous examples and cases, goes something like this:

  1. We have firmly-held ideas, assumptions and theories about ourselves and the universe that form our worldview. Our worldview dictates what we study and how we study it.
  2. Theories and tests, at times, run into discrepancies. These discrepancies are usually labeled “anomalies” and discarded (after all, they don’t line up with the worldview which must be true).
  3. As anomalies continue to occur, at some point someone raises their hand and says, “Maybe instead of throwing out the anomalies, we should consider them.”
  4. As the anomalies are considered, a new idea emerges, centered on the previously conflicting evidence. This new idea then becomes cemented as a new assumption, theory and worldview.
  5. Hit repeat

Kuhn’s theory allows us to ask the question, “What might we be missing?”

Charles Darwin’s theory of evolution as the origin of the species has been cemented as societal truth for nearly a century. To suggest an idea that is not aligned with evolutionary theory would result in expulsion from the academy and scoffing from one’s peers.

As Ross Geller once chided Phoebe, “Evolution is scientific FACT!”

Evolution as fact has formed not only the worldview of the scientific community at large but common culture as well. Simply walk over to your neighbor’s house and say, “I doubt evolution,” You might be looked at as if you had just questioned the existence of oxygen or said bears can talk.

While the acceptance of Darwin’s theory has formed a worldview that dictates how many in our world understand ourselves and the universe, some are beginning to question why there is tape on Atlas’s Darwinian orb.

One significant event Darwin could not explain was the Cambrian explosion. The Cambrian explosion is the name given to the sudden appearance of many species of animals in the fossil record. While these animals do not have any preceding ancestors apparent in earlier layers of rock, Darwin was confident they eventually would be found.

They haven’t.

Science has also advanced our knowledge exponentially since Darwin’s time regarding what is really in all that goop inside our bodies. Within the last 50 years, biologists have been overwhelmed by the amount of information stored in single cells and DNA strands that point to the intricacy of what it takes to make an animal.

The cracks in Darwin’s impenetrable shell have been increasing.

While there have been rumblings of doubting Darwin for years in the scientific community, a significant fissure was exposed recently as David Gelernter – a highly respected and world-renowned computer scientist at Yale – raised his hand and said perhaps we should consider the anomalies. 

In an essay titled, “Giving Up Darwin,” published in the Claremont Review of Books, Gelernter explained that he is moving on from Darwinism. His article opens with the observation, “Darwinian evolution is a brilliant and beautiful scientific theory. Once it was a daring guess. Today it is basic to the credo that defines the modern worldview…But what if Darwin was wrong?”

Dr. Gelernter is not a Christian. He may not even be a theist. He claims the dismissal of Darwin is not a victory for religion per se, but a clear acknowledgment that the roads of science are leading to Intelligent Design. He meticulously outlines case by case of scientific discovery that not only make Darwin’s theory untenable, but undergird, highlight, spotlight, place neon signs on, and scream to all who will listen that all of this—we and our universe—is not a mistake.

Those who hold to a biblical worldview have held to this truth in spite of the societal winds buffeting our faces. The Bible clearly says God is the Creator and Sustainer of all things. While various views branch from that tree, the certainty of a Designer outside of ourselves has been unshakeable.

While Gelernter’s essay may mark a significant turn in the case against Darwin, our culture will not necessarily conclude that the God of the Bible is the Intelligent Designer indicated by unfolding science. In many ways, Darwinism has held its position so long because there has not been another viable explanation that doesn’t require a Deity to whom we are accountable. 

Likely, our culture will progress toward Intelligent Design as a theory while still refusing to acknowledge the God of the Bible. After all, once one does that, a lot of paradigms have to shift.

Should our society move away from Darwinian evolution, it does not cement the Bible’s case for skeptics, but it may open doors for conversation. It increasingly becomes incumbent on us as Christians to share the Scriptures and what they say about who we are, who God is and what all of that means.

Our friends, peers and others may become more open to the idea that they are not a mistake. The desire to understand our purpose and things beyond ourselves may increase. In other words, new doors are opening around us for Gospel conversation.

Our world’s views on evolution may be evolving, but the Gospel is not. Christian, be prepared.

The art of being quiet

The art of being quiet

I’m guilty of it, and you likely are as well.

As soon as there is a lull in the day, a brief moment of waiting, you reach into your pocket or purse and grab your phone. You don’t need to make a call, and you just checked your email five minutes ago, but for some reason you just have to pull it back out and scroll through endless post on your favorite social media sites.

You are not looking for something; you’re just looking at something. Our eyes gloss over with a zombie like stare as we just scroll, scroll and scroll down again.

It’s instinctual now. If there is a red light or an elevator ride, we look at our phones. I’m not writing this to tell you to stop; I’m writing this to remind myself of what is more valuable than time spent on my phone.

People don’t give up bad habits unless it is replaced with a better habit, and I think the story of Elijah gives us a hint at the better habit.

Elijah spent a lot of time by himself—three years to be exact—just waiting for God to do something.  After his time of waiting was up, God took him to Mount Sinai and hides him in a cave.

Elijah feels an earthquake, mighty winds and fire, but we are told after each event that God was not in the noise. No, He was to be found in the soft whisper or, as it literally translates, the thin silence.

As I read that, I wondered “What does thin silence sound like?” Even simpler, I wonder what just regular silence sounds like.

I live a mile from some train tracks, and you can hear them run all night long. The first night I slept in that house I was afraid that I had made a big mistake as I lay awake all night long. However, it only took a few days before I slept like a baby, regardless of the amount of noise. Noise, it turns out, is very easy to get used to.

Although I can adjust to a noisy room rather quickly, I find it much more difficult to adjust to silence. Turns out, I’m addicted to the noise, and you might be as well.

Noise is our universal cultural language at the moment. We live hurried and noisy lives, and as soon as it’s quiet, we turn on the radio, TV or just stare at our phones. So what is better than noise? It’s not just silence; it is God in the silence.

God tells Elijah that HE is in the soft whisper, and if that is a place where I can hear God then that is what I want. I’m not saying we all start to meditate for hours a day; it’s much simpler than that. I just want to hear from my Heavenly Father. I want to visit with my dad. My dad has always told me that love is spelled T-I-M-E.

You whisper when someone is really close to you. That’s why God whispered to Elijah—to let him know that He was standing right beside him. Elijah was not alone, and neither are you. God stands right next to you.

I pray that you begin to develop a desire to have less noise in your life and find moments where you can just be aware that God, the Creator, is close enough to whisper to you.

Miles Away: Trusting Jesus with Your Adult Child

Miles Away: Trusting Jesus with Your Adult Child

For so much of our children’s lives, we are the conduits through which God works, protecting, guiding, comforting, and teaching our children even as the Holy Spirit draws them toward repentance and salvation. 

It’s a big job—a scary one at times—but it’s also a comfort to see and know in real time what God is doing and to understand, at least to some degree, what He’s working to accomplish at each age and stage of your children’s lives. 

There is fulfillment, too, in knowing that even when you can’t prevent hardship or heartache, you can be there to soothe, teach, and send them back out, the Father’s hand almost visible in theirs as a result of the prayers you’ve prayed in earnest and the faith you’ve extended in response to Who you know God to be and what you believe He can do.   

Then they leave. 

No longer mere minutes away, your children do most of their living and breathing and choosing beyond your field of vision, beyond your reach, making their own way in a world where the Enemy prowls, seeking to destroy them (1 Pet. 5:8).

It’s a helpless feeling—at least, it can be—one with which the royal official mentioned in John 4 was, no doubt, familiar. Separated from his critically ill son by more than a day’s journey, he did the only thing he could do for the son he loved from that distance.  He begged Jesus to intervene, to breathe life into his child.

And Jesus did. 

Of course, the official didn’t have any tangible proof of this in the moment—thank you, Lord, for smart phones and FaceTime—but he took Jesus at His word and began the long journey home, every step an exercise in patience, every thought a battle against doubt, every mile an obstacle to overcome before his faith would become sight. 

Can you imagine the agony? 

If you have grown children, my guess is yes.

Listen, I know, no matter how many prayers for protection I pray, my children are going to experience difficult things in life—Jesus promised as much (John 16:33)—and I don’t begrudge God the opportunity to glorify Himself through my children in whatever way He deems necessary.  I truly don’t.

How could I when He didn’t begrudge us His own Son? 

All I ask—I beg—is that God complete in my children what He began when they confessed their need for a Savior and surrendered their lives to His Lordship, keeping their faith strong to the end, for their good and His ultimate glory. 

Jesus will do it, of course.  He promised as much (John 6:37-40), but I’ve a long journey ahead as a parent, every step an exercise in patience, every thought a battle against doubt, every mile an obstacle to overcome before my faith becomes sight.

It can be excruciating.  

Even so, I will trust Him, not only because I really have no other choice—His being omnipresent, omnipotent, omniscient, and sovereign, things I most definitely am not—but also because I, like the royal official, believe God is faithful (1 Cor. 1:8-9).

That’s why we go to Him in the first place, isn’t it?

DHD: Falwell, Born-alive bill, Conservatives clash, Mohler on newspapers, Worship in darkness, Durant keeps griping

DHD: Remembering my mother

Greetings!         

For this week’s DHD, I’m sharing memories about my mother. Hester Doyle died on Labor Day, and it’s been a heavy week. I have great memories of my mom and decided to share six of them with you.

1. Mom’s encounter with Elvis

This is one of the funniest stories Mom told me. She used to work for a bank in Memphis, and it was the bank that had Elvis Presley’s financial accounts. She actually saw Elvis frequently coming to the bank. One time, she said she could see Elvis’ car outside her office window. The funny part happened after Elvis would come inside the bank.  According to Mom, she could see girls swarm Elvis’ car. They were so ecstatic and giddy, and many would brush their skirts up against the car just to get some of the dirt.

2. Growing up playing the piano

I don’t know how old Mom was when she started playing the piano, but from what I recall, her dad had her learn when she was young. The reason he did this was he needed an accompanist. My grandfather was known across the southeast Missouri region as a song leader. He not only led services at his church, but at many others, especially if any church was holding a revival. Mom was always there with him to play the piano.

3. Skipping church wasn’t an option

Speaking of church, we were a family who went every time the church doors were open, and Mom insisted we do so. I remember a time our church had a revival in the fall. Revivals went a whole week and even beyond during these years. On the Saturday during the revival, I went that day with a high school friend to an OU football game, and I remember being tired when I came home.

Mom didn’t care how tired I was. “You’re not going to miss a church service after going to a football game!” she told me. No matter how I felt, I still went to the revival meeting that night.

4. Mom the proofreader and grammar expert

People get on to me about my fascination with grammar. This is definitely something I inherited from my mother. There were many times, even in my current profession as a newspaper editor, that I would call her to ask a grammar question.

Also, it always seemed when we went to an event that had a published program, she always would find an error. My one regret I had this week after writing her obituary is she wasn’t able to proofread it.

5. Mom’s 80th birthday

One of the greatest times we had with my mom in her final years was at her 80th birthday party. Many extended family and longtime church friends were able to attend. I cherish this day.

6. Remember Heb. 13:7

Heb. 13:7 says “Remember your leaders who have spoken God’s word to you. As you carefully observe the outcome of their lives, imitate their faith.”

I have many “leaders” or Christian mentors in my life, and my mother is one of them. She instilled in me how important church attendance was, and through this, I encountered great times of worship and Bible study and a love for fellowship of Christian believers.

God blessed me with a great mom. She was my hero. I look forward to celebrating her life on Sept. 9 at Quail Springs Baptist Church.

Get In The Game!

Get In The Game!

It’s that time of year again. You can almost smell the tailgating grills. Soon there will be a crispness in the air and we will be cheering for our favorite team. As believers in “the Way” (a first century description of the church), and followers of Christ, we are on a team as well. We are on God’s team. Unfortunately, there has been some confusion over the last 2,000 years. We are not supposed to be spectators. We are on the team!

When we accepted Christ as Lord and Savior, just like the equipment manager handing out gear, we were given Spiritual gifts. Maybe it was just one gift, but it is supposed to be put to use to honor the God Who saved us from our sins. Oh, we all love Eph. 2:8-9, which describes the salvific gift of God’s grace through faith and how it is not of ourselves or our works so we can’t even boast about it. But for some reason we hit the brakes and often turn a blind eye to verse 10—“For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them” (NASB).

Think of it this way. If I applied to work for a company that had awesome benefits (like eternal life insurance) and got the job, and I was trained with a specific skill set the company needed, would the boss allow me to just show up, clock in and then yuk it up in the break room all day drinking coffee and eating donuts? Of course not! Then why do we think we can get away with it in the Body of Christ?

If God gave us the ability to kick 60-yard field goals (metaphorically), then why would we want to sit in the stands and watch the game? We should be on the field making the coach proud. My observation of folks in church who tend to be miserable, complain more often than not and are rarely satisfied, is they are not serving and utilizing their spiritual gift(s).

Get in the game!  God will bless you for it and you will be so happy… it was what you were made to do.

REVIEW: ‘You Are Here’ provides an uplifting, overlooked story from 9/11

REVIEW: ‘You Are Here’ provides an uplifting, overlooked story from 9/11

When terrorists attacked the United States in 2001, 6,700 passengers were forced to land in Gander, Newfoundland, a town with a population of 9,000. On Wednesday, Sept. 11, an inspiring story about that week lands in theaters.

When terrorists attacked two cities and killed nearly 3,000 people in 2001, the world mourned.

But 1,460 miles away in the small town of Gander, Newfoundland, hope was shining bright.

Gander was the default destination for 38 planes and about 6,700 people travelling over the Atlantic Ocean when the United States closed its airspace on Sept. 11, 2001.

Those 6,700 people were heading to places like Denver and Disney World when their planes were told to make a sharp right and land in Gander, a North American city in Canada that is so far east that it’s closer to London, England than to St. Louis, Mo.

As one passenger later said: “I had never heard of Newfoundland.”

They were stranded in a place they didn’t want to be, far away from friends and family. Even worse, they were stuck in a town that—on first blush—wasn’t equipped to house and feed them. Gander’s population was about 9,000. Where were these 6,500 extra people supposed to go? 

But a strange thing happened. Over the course of the next five days, Gander’s citizens became the passengers’ friends and family. They opened their arms to clothe and feed 6,700 strangers, not knowing if a terrorist was hiding among them.

Gander became a Canadian version of Mayberry, complete with a friendly policeman, a kind mayor, and hundreds of volunteers who cooked meals, found them a bed and even gave these stranded strangers a tour of the scenic island.

Next Wednesday, Sept. 11, a documentary about this unique week—You Are Here—lands in cinemas. It includes interviews with crew members, passengers, citizens and city officials who saw their lives changed—for the better—during a period most of us were despondent. It will be shown for only one night.

“We saw (6,700) people who needed food. They needed clothing. They needed shelter. But most of all, they needed love,” the mayor says in the film. “We showed them that human kindness will outdo hatred any day.”

You Are Here is a feel-good film that will give you the hope-filled emotions of a Hallmark film—yes, there’s a surprising love story in it—and the down-home nostalgia of The Andy Griffith Show. We learn how the Salvation Army pitched in to help. We discover how a Baptist pastor used a Bible to communicate with Russians. Most of all, we watch ordinary people do seemingly extraordinary things, taking care of people round-the-clock. When the week ended—most passengers were in Gander for five days—many were sad they were leaving.  

Home videos from the week bring the story to life, as do clips from a local TV channel. That channel was closely monitored by citizens throughout the week to learn what was needed.   

“You asked for moose (on the show), you got 20 pounds of moose from 15 different people,” the host says, reflecting on that week.

Because the passengers were prohibited from taking their luggage off the planes, they needed clothes, too. Ganderites filled in that gap, as well.

You Are Here isn’t a faith-based film, but it nevertheless serves as an example of the love in action God commanded of the church: “Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers …” (Heb. 13:2).

The story is so uplifting that it inspired books and a Broadway musical.

“In (those) five days we became very close to those people,” the mayor says. “… (O)n the fifth day, we lost 6,700 family members.”

Content

You Are Here is unrated but should be treated like a PG film. It contains minor language (one “living h-ll” and about five OMGs—some heard from the day of the attack) and discussion of the terrorist attack (a first responder says he saw body parts on the ground outside the World Trade Center). Among the passengers interviewed are two gay men who were a couple on the day of the attack. We also see people drink alcohol.

Discussion Questions

1. How would you react if 6,700 strangers landed in your city, needing food and clothing?

2. What can the passengers teach us about contentment?

3. What can the citizens of Gander teach us about how the church should welcome strangers?